Personal: Unemployed at 28, family pressure and inter-caste relationship
#Day12 #Personal I don't understand where my life is going,I'm 28,now even parents have started you how much investment they made on me and all went loss due to I didn't get settled and Unemployed N my GF has her own way of indignation, about missing her texts I'm getting scolded by my parents daily,feels like 24*7 surveillance after i told my GF is from a different caste,told her 1000 times,my situation is not the same as 5 years ago(Carefree, Careless). From everyone,from every dimension i got only sadness and loneliness and suffering I don't know how much it takes, whether my story will be written or not I don't give up🥹🥹
Raghu Pandit · 6d ago
Never give up bhai as i have always told u . But i thnk you should first secure some other job maybe in prvt sector else your gf might also start having pressure from her set of parents as u guys are 28 So i think your job will help u both & upsc is very uncertain
Deepak · 6d ago
@raghupan Im currently helping in business with my brother,but it's his buisness n feels like suffocating daily to interact with customers who bargain like chindii chorr,don't have much skills in the private sector(I know Excel,SQL language) Due to this AI even BTech students r not getting jobs,but I'm from BSc who givez🥲🥲 i already changed many low paying jobs either due to pressure of sales or else it was Tele-calling sometime I feel, nothing is going good,just go somewhere n never come back
The_Hitman · 5d ago
Don't give up bro this surrounding noise will always be there whatever you do in your life, do it for happiness avoid comparison and stay on your journey only thing matters is stay honest to your own self and building own life, have calmness inside you will see life falling in it's place.
Deepak · 5d ago
@The_hitman Tqu so much bro🥹🥹🥹🥹 your words means a lot to me💜💜🥺
Anomaly · 5d ago
I am at similar age as u , i wasted my entire life on bad habits like smoke and drink cause my frnds were rich and they needed some loyal dog on thier side for there dirty work to be done so spoiled my life , now everyone settled , the world is cruel i left my habbits from 2 year's now but it's soiled my capability as perosn, now old parent's with hopes on eyes hoping for me to do something I am under extreme pressure, i ain't relaying on upsc alone , at this point I will do anything that will give me success, I hope u come out of misery of ur life and become a great person
Deepak · 5d ago
@Lali Bro same bro,but my frnds were not rich ,but middle class,we drank ,smoked in college wasted so much potential I too now desperate to get any job , It feels literally selling my self-respect that I'm helping in my small brother shop I was very bright student,still now but my path got deviated towards bad habits,pub-g and all I too left all this Started everything from scratch U too will,u will make it bro I understand how ur parents look at u now But the pressure of reducing time making us anxious 🥺🥺😭😭😭 We will soon get what we wanted